Among a group of people, there will naturally be high and low emotional intelligence, which is normal, but if people with low emotional intelligence do not know that they have low emotional intelligence, this is not normal! Not knowing one's own ignorance is double ignorance. . ——Plato
Emotional Quotient usually refers to emotional quotient, which is a quotient composed of emotion, will, personality, and behavioral habits. Therefore, people with low emotional intelligence can improve by controlling these variables. own emotional intelligence.
1. Lack of patience
People with low emotional intelligence usually lack patience, so when they chase their girlfriends , it is often easy to give up halfway and not know how to persevere. When he encounters difficulties chasing a girl, he wants to give up. When chatting with a girl, if the girl doesn't reply for a while, he will directly block her and say goodbye. By the way - no matter what kind of relationship, playing games is more fun!
2. Overconfidence
People with low emotional intelligence are often overly conceited, and some even like to exaggerate facts and brag. This behavior can easily show up in the process of chatting with girls. It will be very attractive to girls at first and make them think that he is very powerful. In the end, it will always be exposed and make girls realize that he only talks big words.
3. Reject criticism
You can praise him, but you cannot criticize him! People with low emotional intelligence will try their best to refute when they hear criticism, or even become emotional directly, and will not respect the facts. Or reason, start language modes such as sophistry, nonsense, arguments, and mutual attacks.
4. Big temper
People with low emotional intelligence have bad tempers and do not know how to control themselves or simply cannot control them. live. And they often introduce themselves to girls like this - I have a bad temper, I have a bad temper, I have a bad temper at any time...
5. Belittle others
Those with low emotional intelligence People like to belittle others and elevate themselves. When they praise themselves, they don't forget to step on others. They also like to look smug when they say it. It is easy to offend others.
6. Be a self-taught teacher
Don’t know how to pretend to understand, like to engage in civil science, a classic "doing the same thing", he is a layman, but he seems to know everything (implying that he understands) Wang?), often makes irresponsible remarks on others and teaches others how to do things.
7. Don’t pay attention to the occasion when speaking
In certain situations, some things can be said and some things cannot. It can be said. People with low emotional intelligence don't care about so much. They always look indifferent and don't pay attention to the occasion when they speak.
8. Not able to perceive emotions
Usually people will perceive the other person’s emotional errors when they say the wrong thing. People with low emotional intelligence will not.He can sense emotions and know that the other person is angry only when he makes the other person angry to the point of swearing.
9. Laziness
Laziness is a very strange thing. It makes you think that it is comfort, rest and blessing; but in fact, what it gives you is boredom. Burnout is depression; it deprives you of your hope for the future, cuts off friendships between you and others, makes you increasingly narrow-minded and more and more doubtful about life.
10. Cowardice
Cowardly people are often not popular with girls. In the eyes of girls, cowardly people are often mama’s boys who dare not admit their mistakes and will always be angry when encountering problems. Hiding without a sense of commitment or responsibility.
The above are the 10 characteristics of people with low emotional intelligence, and people with low emotional intelligence often have one thing in common: they don’t have a girlfriend. Therefore, before chasing girls, you can think about improving your emotional intelligence first.
