Girls often use the word "straight man" to describe certain men. So as a man who is called a "straight man", how should we answer her question? Let me share my views with you below.
1. Straight man is not a derogatory term
First of all, we need to make it clear that straight man is not derogatory term. It is just a word used to describe some men who are more traditional and conservative in their thinking and behavior. It has no derogatory meaning. Therefore, when a girl says you are a straight man, we don’t have to be too sensitive or disgusted.
2. Understand our own characteristics
Secondly, we need to understand our own characteristics. If we are really a more traditional and conservative person, then we must admit this and do not need to feel inferior or ashamed because of it. Everyone has their own characteristics and advantages. We should cherish our strengths and improve ourselves through learning and change.
3. Accept other people’s opinions
Again, we need to accept other people’s opinions of us. A girl may say that you are a straight man because she thinks you are more traditional or conservative in some aspects, but this does not mean that her evaluation of you is correct. We can listen to her opinions, but we must also have our own judgment and thinking.
4. Keep an open mind
Finally, we need to keep an open mind. As a straight man, we should not limit our thinking and behavior because of this, but should actively learn and try new things to expand our horizons and experience. Only in this way can we better adapt to the changes and development of society.
Being called straight by girls is not a big deal. We need to correctly understand our own characteristics and accept other people's opinions. At the same time, we must also keep an open mind, constantly learn and try new things, and improve our own quality and abilities.
