Question: I am a male, with a master's degree, a civil servant, and own a house and a car. It can be said that my conditions are very good among my peers. But I have a fatal problem, that is, I am very short and average-looking, only 160cm. Recently, I met a girl on a blind date. We only met after chatting for half a month. The chat was very pleasant. She said that I am not the kind of romantic person, but this is nothing. The most important thing is that she thinks that I am too tall at 160cm. She is short, and the girl is 165cm tall. I would like to ask what should I do if the boy is short? Can you have love?
What should I do if a boy is short?
Answer: To be honest, I think based on your conditions, if it were not for You are short, plain-looking, and not romantic. Do you think you will be single now based on your conditions? I personally think that if two people really like each other, height is not a big issue. My ex is 165, shorter than me.
Frankly speaking, I have been dissatisfied with the other person’s height because it looks very unmatched. And if you like to act like a baby and want to experience the feeling of a little bird clinging to someone, then it basically won’t happen. . At that time, people around me asked me why I found someone like this, and their voices were full of pity for me.
And there will be a lot of embarrassing moments. For example, when I went to take artistic photos with him, other girls would pose casually with their tall and powerful boyfriends on their shoulders. When I came here, the photographer directly said to the person next to him: Hey, give this man a hard time. Then they brought something to my ex and stepped on it, and then they started taking pictures. At that moment, not to mention feeling ashamed, at least I was very concerned about it. My ex looked embarrassed, but didn't say anything.
When he was with me, I also heard many family members and friends say, "How can you find someone taller than you?" His shortcomings are often mentioned, so he is probably under a lot of pressure. If he finds a girl shorter than him, at least he won't have to bear those burdens.
So I actually think that the fact that a woman is taller than a man is quite stressful for both of them, because everyone really They will often make comments about how you don't seem to be a good match, and some people will say it every time they see you. If your heart is fragile and you often hear these words, you will be so angry that you will not be able to vent your anger. Think about whether you can bear it.
Of course, if you are particularly good and can offset the disadvantage of height, or you don’t mind what others think at all, then just pretend I didn’t say anything. But the most important thing is whether you can really find a girl who doesn't mind your height and choose you firmly, so that you can stick to it. Of course, you can also choose to find a girl who is shorter than you to fall in love with. It depends on whether you can find it and whether you want to make do with it.
