Although many boys have a lot of experience in getting along with girls and can attract many girls, they actually don’t know what they rely on to attract girls? Today I will analyze it from the two aspects of inner beauty and outer beauty:
Which is more important to attract girls, inner beauty or outer beauty?
Some people think that attracting girls depends on routines? By being handsome? Rely on mines? Really not, of course external beauty can attract people, but it doesn’t last long! For example, if you have a lot of money, can you guarantee that you will have a lot of money throughout your life? Can you guarantee that there will be no setbacks in your life? No one can guarantee it!
But your personal charm, moral character, and temperament can be retained for a long time. You see, many business bosses may lose everything for one reason, but as long as they speak, they are still bosses, and their aura is definitely there. You will definitely find that people you attract based on external conditions will eventually leave.
In fact, attracting girls is the same. If you only rely on beauty to attract the other party, how good will the final result be?
So what do you rely on to attract girls? Rely on inner beauty. This sounds like nonsense, right? Really not, of course external beauty can attract people, but it doesn’t last long.
For example, if you have a lot of money, can you guarantee that you will have a lot of money throughout your life? Can you guarantee that there will be no setbacks in your life? No one can guarantee it! But your personal charm, moral character, and temperament can be retained for a long time.
The above basically illustrates how important a person’s intrinsic value is. Of course, we will all be called chicken soup like this, because now everyone tends to summarize things in the simplest direction.
For example, as long as you learn to drive a Ferrari with one hand, there is no way you will not be successful in dating. This argument is widely accepted. And it is indeed true. But the interesting thing is that not everyone can have the top resources, nor can everyone be rich and handsome. Just like girls, it is impossible for every girl to have a top-notch face and a super-A figure.
This chicken soup thing is just for people who have no hard value. But then again, just because you have no hard value and nothing to offer, you can’t drive a Ferrari with one hand, so you can only drive a shared bicycle. This is when you need motivation and change.
As the saying goes, if you are poor, you will want to change. Emotionally, it can also be called a lack of people who want to change. If you read a little history, you will definitely understand that in ancient times it was basically impossible for a poor person to change his class. In modern times, this probability is at least much greater, although it is still very difficult. Many times, everyone needs to be patient with themselves and not think of a blanket solution. Don't think that just like playing a game, you have to pick up the top equipment before starting to act. In fact, when you are wearing common clothesYou can already start taking action.
