The boy a girl likes must be manly and must not be a coward. If you are a coward, you will be out of luck. Next, let’s talk about the real reasons why you are a coward in the eyes of girls and lead to your failure in chasing girls. Remember, you will do it again in the future.
Signs of cowardice in boys in the eyes of girls
If some of your behaviors are cowardly in the eyes of girls, then she will definitely not like you.
1. Dare to think but dare not do it
Some boys who have been single for a long time, or who have never been in love, must not know how to do it when they suddenly meet a girl they like. They have no self-confidence. They will find a lot of reasons to convince themselves, thinking that they are the ones who are high-achieving girls. They are afraid of losing, and even more afraid of losing the chance to speak. They are willing to be alone. Around her, she didn't dare to say anything about flirting or interacting with a good person. Maybe, she thought about it in her heart, but she always didn't dare to take a step slowly, and the final result was always a good picture. Card, but turn around, in a few days, the girl will have a new boyfriend, you said, isn't it sad, isn't it ridiculous? So, when you meet someone you like, really don't wait, wait. The results are mostly regrettable.
2. Don’t understand the nature of love
The attraction between the opposite sex is always the beginning of love. Mutual attraction, she is gentle and generous, a little bit popular, and you are handsome and romantic. When you were still strangers, these inner values ??that were different from hers were the first step to develop into a lover. What kind of personality did you show? Value will attract what kind of girls, and those who only use money to chase girls every day, then it would be strange if the girls you meet don't worship money. Of course, if that's all you like, then that's a different matter.
There are also some relatively stupid behaviors, which are to confess your love too early and expose your sense of need. Do you think that a girl is willing to contact and chat with you because she has a crush on you? The contact at this time is actually only about feeling. Regarding whether you have a good or bad impression in a girl's heart, and whether you want to continue dating, I know that if you rush to reveal your suicide, in addition to bringing pressure and making the girl deliberately stay away from you, there will be no good results. Every relationship is not determined by confession. Confession is just a ceremony for your victory. Remember not to regard it as a means of attack.
3. Never know your own problems
Zeng Zi once said, I examine myself three times a day. This is the greatest wisdom of the ancients. Examine and reflect on your own shortcomings every day and correct them. , can we continuously improve our own value. And precisely, this is what many people lack most when chasing girls.
I used to have a colleague who promised his girlfriend to accompany her.For dinner, because my friend’s birthday conflicted, I didn’t communicate in advance and took my girlfriend to the party. A group of old men were bragging and drinking there. The girl felt that she couldn’t get in the conversation at all and couldn’t fit into the atmosphere. Then I said hello and left, but my colleague felt that this girl didn't give her face, and conflicts broke out later, which ended in a breakup.
In fact, this matter only needs to be communicated in advance, and a lot of misunderstandings can be avoided, even. When conflicts arise, you can avoid breaking up by carefully examining one of your own problems. However, many people miss it and do not understand the truth.
